i just don't get it

Okay.

Maybe its just me or maybe I've been living under a rock for the past few years. When did it become okay to treat other people like crap for something they can't help? When did it become acceptable to use harsh language towards a person who is stuck in a spot that they can't change?

I have been nothing but nice and helpful throughout the situation. I've taken time to carefully compose well thought out responses and been sympathetic to the situation, but I've signed a legally binding contract that I can't change. What makes you think that because you're plans have changed that I can magically change the terms of a contract that I signed six months ago? I can't. And now I know I for sure won't.

You are now absolutely and positively out of luck. And I'm out of patience.